If you haven’t already figured out by the enormous amount of inspirational posts on social media, today is National Women’s Day. At this point in my life, I don’t know what I want to be when I grow up; I don’t know yet what my political views are; but I do know that I’m becoming a young woman, and I know that this young woman is a true feminist.
The concept of feminism is misconceived by many. Some think that being a feminist means believing that a woman’s worth is more than a man’s.
I understand feminism to mean equality of men and women…that humans of all races, religions, genders, sexual orientations, etc. are treated equally, are paid equally, and are acknowledged equally.
Once I was shy, quiet, sweet, sensitive, fearful, and pretty much considered a goody goody. I used to allow people to walk all over me because I was scared of being judged, getting in trouble, and hurting people’s’ feelings. I was insecure. I was nervous to ask questions. I was hesitant to show others my weird, quirky self. I was scared to tell people that they hurt me. I was scared to ask for any favors or ask for any help.
Today, although I am still struggling to find my confidence,
I am feeling the beginnings of strength and power growing as I get closer and closer to being a woman.
I am learning to stick up for myself more and I’m not so scared of other people’s judgments.
I have realized that I just have to be my true self, and then the right friends will come along.
I have been called a bitch for speaking up for myself.
I have been called annoying for being happy and weird.
However, none of these have stopped me from the commitment to be myself. I am currently working on becoming the best woman I can be, and the best version of myself possible, so that I can maybe guide others in doing the same.
So, Happy International Women’s Day! Hope everyone, both men and women, felt their strength and power today!
xo
Jilly
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